Put some fun in your planning

When it comes to making task list, we love using MS brand Reporter Notebooks – they come in so many colors and are so much fun to use.  To add some flair when we write down important dates and tasks – we use  Bic 4 Color Pens, along with GOLD Sharpie Markers and Navy Paper Mate Flair Pens {which we added a bit of dazzle to by making the ends of the pens gold}.  While looking through magazines or making notes, you might see something that needs to be tagged – try these page tabs {you can write your own tab note} these are our favorite also by MS Office.

We will be showing you how we use each of these items in the PINK Events OFFICE in our short vlogs coming soon!

How will you say {I do}? Some helpful tips on writting your own vows…

Just thinking of our wedding vows the other day. Glenn and I had the most amazing wedding and our vows did not leave a dry eye with any of our guests.  This was not what we expected,  They were simple, written by each of us and added our mark on the ceremony.

Are you preparing to write your own wedding vows, but feel stuck and nervous on how to begin?  This is how we went about it….

First we verified with our officiant that we could write our own vows.  Then got going – for me I needed a cool notebook to start the process

I love May’s Designs and they have customizable notebooks – you can pick from a variety of covers and pages  FULL AWESOMENESS

Of course for a more masculine journal you can always go to ETSY and shop around – We love Dancing Grey Studios and they have a fantastic journal and notebook selection.

Here are some helpful points:

{Start early} Give yourself at least a month in advance, or work on them after you set up your main vendors. Make sure you in a relax place, no rush time frame. Give yourself some deadlines on getting your first draft done maybe two – three weeks before the big day and have your  final version complete a couple of days before.

{Traditional or Non Traditional} If you have come to the decision on having original and not traditional, you may want to start with a greeting such as “my darling (or sweetheart, beloved, dearest, etc) partners name”. You could also do it with a quote that may have meaning to your relationship or to a song that mean something to you both as a couple. If you choose to go traditional then its just the basic “I, your name, ta When you sit down to write down your vows, don’t feel bad if you experience writers block, or start to panic. Just remember why you chose to write your own vows. To make it that more meaningful and remember able. Just take a deep breath and relax.

{Brainstorming}  Just  sit down with an pen and a piece of paper and start to scribble down what comes to mind. Just keep writing things down some things  you may consider to get going.

♥ How did you and your fiancé first meet?

♥ When did you realize you were in love?

♥ How has your relationship help you grow as a person?

♥ When you think of your future together, what does it look like?

{Your Marriage} Here is where you get to discuss what marriage may mean to you, the hopes and fears you may have as you enter into this new chapter with your partner.

{I do} Finally as you come to the concluding part of the vows finish up by letting your partner know how much you love them and how lucky you are to have them and how thanking them for who they are and giving them the chance to being with you.

Thinking of adding some bling to that ring finger?

Image take by Fucci Photos

1)    What is your Future Fiancé style? –   A diamond – maybe… or perhaps another stone? Don’t rule out sapphires, emeralds, jade or other unique stones.  Take a peek at the jewelry they already wear (Do they wear silver or gold more?).  Look in their jewelry box or ask someone their close with.  In simple terms, SPY on their style.

2)   Research the Ring – Know what kind of options for rings are out there.  Have you herd of the four C’s? – Carat, Clarity, Cut and Color.  These are very important options for diamonds because they will determine what the stone looks like.

3)   Pick a Budget – Know how much you can spend.  This is pretty important because you do not want to spend so much that you’ll be in debt – or too little.  Pick a price you can work with.

4)   Meet with Jewelers – There are a lot of jewelers out there, so get recommendations.  The best advice is to pick a jeweler that is dependable and has a good reputation.  You may want to ask a friend or family member to go with you, just so you have someone to ‘bounce’ things off of.

5)   Get Specific – Design it or even customize the ring if you like.

 

Just have fun and make sure to know their ring size.

xo, the Pink Interns

Thank you Fucci Photos for the amazing images!  ♥

 

Hello, my name is finally – some simple steps to help change your name

Ever wonder what steps you need to complete a name change after you get married? We’ll we’ve got you covered.

♥ Get certified copies of your marriage license

Obtain certified copies — not photocopies — from the city hall or agency that filed your marriage license.

Newly married people changing their names need one certified copy of their marriage license that they will probably never see again to send to the Social Security Administration

♥ Start with the Social Security Administration

Begin with this agency because it needs your correct name and ID number for payroll tax withholdings and retirement benefits. A mismatch between your name and Social Security number could trigger a rejection of your tax return.

Having your new Social Security card will also help you change your name with financial institutions and other contacts on your list.

You’ll need to file Form SS-5  with your local Social Security office to obtain a new Social Security card. Notifying the Social Security Administration will also update the Internal Revenue Service of your new name.

Get a new driver’s license

Getting an updated license or identification card should make subsequent name changes with financial institutions easier. You may be able to update voter registration as well as your vehicle registration and title in the process. Check with your state Department of Motor Vehicles for instructions.

Update work records and benefits

Inform your employer so that paychecks and benefits reflect the new name. Review your tax withholdings and make changes if necessary.

Remember to go over your insurance coverage and beneficiaries now that you have new family members

Contact your bank

Updating your name with your bank or credit union may require an in-person visit. For a name change on your account, the bank will want to see your updated driver’s license.

Notify creditors in order to link credit files

If you don’t tell lenders of your new moniker, you won’t have a credit history under your married name, which can pose a problem during a credit check.

Once notified, creditors will update their records and report the new information to the credit reporting agencies.   If you’re not sure which companies to contact, request a free copy of your credit report through AnnualCreditReport.com.


Then contact these other places

Landlord or mortgage  company

Other insurance accounts (auto, life, home, etc.)

Physicians’ offices

Professional licensing boards

Investment accounts

Your attorney (to update legal documents)

Utilities

Passport office

Post office

Voter registration board

Alumni association

After getting through all the important updates, it will be a matter of changing your name as you come across miscellaneous accounts and subscriptions.

 

Destination: MA

Costa Rica! Hawaii! Bermuda! Massachusetts? The truth is, Massachusetts may not be the first place to pop into your head when you think about destination weddings, but it should! You’d be surprised that there are so many locations in Massachusetts that bring you that “paradise” feeling you are looking, some even a quick drive away!

Take a look at what we found to be the four perfect wedding destinations right here in Massachusetts!

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Destination: Cape Cod

When it comes to a beautiful destination in Massachusetts, how can you not think Cape Cod? From its picturesque beaches to its romantic atmosphere, Cape Cod is the perfect location to host a wedding.

Make your memories unforgettable at the Chatham Bars Inn located in Chatham, MA.  The space features 20-foot vaulted cathedral ceilings and panoramic views that open up onto an oceanfront deck.

Or if you want to show your wedding guests a good party, take them to the Flying Bridge where you can enjoy the view of the harbor through its floor-to-ceiling windows.

And what better place to have your wedding than in Provincetown? Choose your location from one of P-Towns many famous hotspots and provide your guests with the best entertainment. From delicious restaurants to fabulous shows, your wedding will be one to remember.

Destination: Boston

While there are many, well known places to get married in Boston, what about the unique ones that are just as beautiful? Boston is a city that celebrates being different, so why not stay true to that on your wedding day?

Did you know that you can easily turn one of your favorite Boston spots into your next wedding location? Places such as The Boston Public Library, Symphony Hall, and Fenway Park! These spots have proven to be spectacular venues for all weddings.

Boston is also known for its well-loved museums, and many make themselves available for weddings and special events. Imagine getting married at the Museum of Science, the Museum of Fine Arts, or even the New England Aquarium? The city is your oyster!

If you’re a Boston super-fan, then you may already have a place in mind. You’d be surprised, the next time you’re here in the city, keep an eye out for that perfect spot. It may be just around the corner!

Destination: Western, MA

Head away from the ocean and you can find the beauty that is Western, MA! From its gorgeous estates to its ideal vendors, Western, MA truly brings you all of your wedding needs in one amazing location.

Trying to pick a venue? Try Cranwell Resort! They offer a wide range of wedding services that will help make your big day magical. From their 60-mile view of the hills in Lenox to their marble dance floor Ballroom with 16-foot windows, the resort is absolutely stunning.

Destination: North Shore

When planning a destination wedding, what do you look for? Beaches? Beautiful scenery? Elegant venues? Well you can find all of that and more right in the North Shore! From Gloucester to Rockport and all of the areas surrounding, a night in the North Shore will take your breath away.

Check out the Topsfield Commons! Experience beauty at it’s best when you say your “I dos” under the large maple trees and head into the grand ballroom for the reception of your dreams!

Or make your wedding the event of a lifetime when you have it at the Emerson Inn By The Sea, located in Rockport, MA. With a stunning oceanfront view and a historic grand parlor, this location provides the perfect surrounding for both indoor and outdoor weddings.

Celebrating your wedding in the North Shore guarantees style and romance on your big day.

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When it comes down to it, what matters most on your wedding day is your happiness. Once you pick that perfect spot, be sure you surround yourself with your loved ones and embrace all the happiness coming your way on that special day.

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